A pal with benefits

Man in Norwich, East Midlands, UK

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 4 days ago

Thought I'd update while I have a few mins.

I've not had many meets with different people as I prefer to gain a little trust with a sexual partner.

Being married I obviously don't want to bring home an S.T.D so early meets are a safe only encounter.

Don't get me wrong...I love cum! Watching it squirt or dripping out of me...it's all great fun. However until I know someone quite well it's gotta go ON the body...not In.

I've learned a few things and my pro's and con's list is building nicely.

When it comes to being a top my blood pressure meds play havoc. Only a few things get me hard enough to penetrate. For example larger rounder bums or a really smooth soft ones...also women get me hard so a little porn or pics of the wife really work. Better still I'm definitely up for couples. Even if they don't want to join in and sit there naked.

I'm not picky but I prefer non camp (unless t.v) but also overly masculine guys don't grab my attention. Therefore if I wink ..I like what I see.

I occasionally wear the wife's dirty panties but I really don't make them look good so it's not a selling point it's really for me. I'm happy for a cock to slip into them or cum on them while I wear them but they will be coming home with me.

Blow jobs...I love giving them. But I refer to the earlier point of condoms. I have now given a few with condom on. I know it's not what we want but it's safe...and from what I've been told it's really not that bad...certainly better than getting nothing,isn't it?

Hair... shaved or trimmed please. I do love shaved balls in my mouth.

Size...body size or cock size doesn't matter. Foreskin or not foreskin? really doesn't matter, as long as it's clean.

Anal...can't wait to be taken. However I'm really tight so extra lube will be needed (not spit).

Meets.. I can't accom! Most of us can't but it's much more fun if you can. This leaves outdoor meets or car. Always nerve racking and hard to find a nice spot. So I'm happy to meet and say hi in a public place first. It also gives us a chance to decide if it will work out or not. Not showing up is just not nice!

I will always be discreet and expect the same. I'm not here to ruin someone's marriage or street cred. This said...I won't meet at the local "spot" I'll leave that to the heavily verified thanks. I really want a small network of trusted friends that know if we bump into each other out shopping nothing will be said and we can relax in the knowledge the wife will not find out.

Likes:

Crossdressers plaid skirt knee high socks and a white shirt

Kneeling in front of you looking up into your eyes as I wank you, suck your balls and finger your bottom.

Hard cock rubbing against my lubed hole and pulling my wife’s knickers up after you’ve cum

Quick cummers especially when outdoor

Small cocks.

Dislikes:

Smelly unwashed people

Too much body hair

P.s I’m versatile/bittom

58 years old, Bisexual

5'8" 173cm
Chubby
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
No piercings
Size: Small
Role: Versatile
Caucasian (white)

Looking For

Men TV/TS
Aged from 18 to 99
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Cannot accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Wanking, Shaved, Safe sex, Rimming, Oral, Older guys, Feet, Cubs, Anal, 1 on 1

Verified Genuine Profile

*oxytvAmber (49), TV/TS on 20 January 2025 by Meeting in person:
Very naughty guy xx say no more xx

*arah (53), TV/TS on 8 September 2023 by Meeting in person:
Met him this morning and wanked me off yummy will definitely meet again don’t miss an opportunity with him

*XL_Builder (52), Man on 24 August 2022 by Meeting in person:
Honest, discreet and clean guy. Great anon meet.

Friends

melanie (69), Man