Settling into being single - looking for life more than love...

Man in Stafford, Staffordshire - St17, West Midlands, UK

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 1 month ago

Hi all!

For those wanting a shortish summary:

Looking mainly for meets (ideally regularly or as & when possible) and friendship; both is great but either is fine. Have a very healthy libio, tend to be more top, into a diverse range of play; everything is optional though from more 'vanilla' and up. Can accomodate or travel, does vary although will make the effort for either wherever possible. Age, size, skin tone isn't usually an issue, personality typically matters more to me. However, I do have a few types that catch my interest, especially chubbier, subservant, ginger and/or ethnic guys. I'm pretty direct - if you want exaggeratsd fantasy, you'll struggle here. Those happy with average length, generous thickness and decent skills sexually to mutually please shouldn't be disappointed :)

Interested or want to discover a bit more?...

I'm fairly easy going with a medium to slightly large build. Have shed ten stone over the last couple years and now slowly downsizimg a little more at this stage. In the process of trying to tone up, so tend to be moderately active, from gym sessions to walks (plus plenty of other 'psyhical' activity too)!

Until recently I'd class my sexual style as versatile-top. At the moment that's slightly changed - being more predominately top - in part due to medical issues. There are times I will be more versatile and a bottom but right now it depends on circumstances, the situation and person as to if and when. Happy to play with other tops, so long as the above is alright with them. Regardless, my aim is not just to be pleased but make sure the other person or people are too (that way they'll want to come back for more, at least in theory).

Both friendship and those just wanting no-strings fun are welcome. If you're looking for something more than a one off, that's great - regular meetups are my preference. If you'd just rather make a new friend, message or build a repore before getting together, then that's fine too (ideally just let me know). Either way, discretion is assured & am not judgemental :)

When it comes to 'likes' I'm Into plenty of things: from a sensual massage through to a few fetishes (and posdibly even more)! Everything is optional though, so happy to go as far as the other person or people are comfortable. I only have a few limits in general; can supply more details of what gets me going (and doesn't) on request...

Want to find out more or have any questions?... send a message or wink my way. Hope to be in touch soon. Thanks for taking the time to read all this, much appreciated!

Ben

45 years old, Bisexual

6'0" 183cm
Average
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
No piercings
Size: Average
Role: Versatile
Caucasian (white)

Looking For

Couples (MM) Men TV/TS
Aged from 18 to 99
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Can travel

Interests

1 on 1, Anal, Army, Bears, Bikers, Boots, Cruising, Cubs, Feet, Fur, Group sex, Kissing, Leather, Muscle, Naturism, Older guys, Oral, Piercings, Rimming, Rubber, S&M, Safe sex, Shaved, Skinheads, Tattoos, Uniform, Wanking

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*ice guy Stoke for fun (51), Man on 23 July 2018 by Meeting in person:
Met Ben a few weeks ago. A really nice friendly guy and very easy to talk to. Great kisser we soon got naked and resulted in me shooting a big load. Will definitely meet Ben again.

*exy stella (66), TV/TS on 2 May 2018 by Meeting in person:
Met this sexy guy at short notice did pretty much every thing that can be done to me and swallowed my load when I cum, lots of fun thanks for the po ers see you soon.

*exy stella (66), TV/TS on 5 August 2017 by Meeting in person:
Lovely guy, good sex,proper gentleman. Cheers mate.

*exy stella (66), TV/TS on 5 August 2017 by Meeting in person:
Lovely guy,good fuck,proper gentleman.

*tonemale (42), Man on 9 January 2017 by Meeting in person:
Lovely early morning meet in his garden with this friendly guy, very welcoming bottom to fuck and then swallowed my load mmmm hopefully meet again soon

*tokewolf (58), Man on 2 May 2016 by Meeting in person:
Gen guy with a nice sucking area in his back garden

*eJoHa (76), Man on 13 October 2013 by Meeting in person:
Just spent another fantastic hour and a half having sum fun with this guy, he is very good at what he does,

*eJoHa (76), Man on 8 September 2013 by Meeting in person:
Had a second meeting with Ben, we had some good adult fun which was better than the first meet, will be seeing him again

*eJoHa (76), Man on 1 September 2013 by Meeting in person:
Well what can I say, met this guy early this morning, he is a nice guy and will do anything you want, we spent a good hour together, he is worth spending time with, respect the man.

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