Looking for male connection and fun; massage offered.

Man in Crawley, South East, UK

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 3 days ago

'"Nexus": connection between two objects or people.' Men reach out for affirmation and connection with one another. I offer some thing connecting and sensual as a baseline. I find massage a very connecting experience, which facilities closeness and intimacy.

I have an excellent massage setup, and offer a very good therapeutic or sensual massage. Massage swaps are ideal, though receive only are always welcome. For those who say they can't massage, I would say it does not need to be complicated, any intuitive touch is welcome. I can also do prostate massage, and combined with milking gives a powerful orgasm! Please ask! I have a dedicated space for massage which is comfortable, clean, private and well equipped.

I am a genuinely open, broad minded and adventurous individual. First and foremost I like to make a connection with a guy. The art of pleasure should be to give and take: not considering what one can get out of it, whilst not giving back in return. I enjoy both giving and receiving; and ideally involving two people of equal energies. Having said that a little exploring into light restraint etc.is always welcome! Inaddition, to be blindfolded at the start of a session can enhance sensations. Does this resonate with you? Please enquire if this of interest!

I prefer longer meetings, but quick meetings also serve their purpose too. I am interested in an guy's individual personality rather than solely in their body form or dick size.

Face pic and others are available by request.

I enjoy swimming, biking, and walking to stay fit. Ht 5'11", C 42", W 32".

I'm not into drugs, drama or pain. Please be clean, take a shower, because hygiene and fresh clean body odour makes for successful meetings. Please no untreated fungal infections in your crack or unwashed helmets!!

I am looking for other guys to meetup with: also for fun and intimate sessions. I enjoy snogging/kissing, hugging, cuddling and spooning. I am versatile/top in play, that is, I like to give and receive. Do you like these things too?

To find a regular intimate friend would be a bounus. I appreciate intelligent conversation, getting to know a new friend over a cuppa. Are you looking for a deeper connection?

To find a 'son' to nuture would be nice, and interesting!

Feminine clothing and looks are a turn off, it's all about masculine connection for me!

I am discrete and reliable, please be that too!

For those who want to know more about my massage session the following serves as a description of a swap. For a receive only or 3 way swap it can be modified...

At the beginning I do a connecting phase which combines a mutual undressing phase. We stand dressed facing one another and begin to back massage and front massage and do some hugs. As we begin to relax with one another we lose a layer of clothing. Then we continue the massage and lose another layer of clothing. We continue this and so on and so forth until we are both naked, relaxed with one another and ready to do the massage proper. I will massage your back first then you do my back. Then I will do your front and you will do my front. A massage swap with me usually will last 1-2 hrs. Time flies when you are relaxed and enjoying yourself! I do a swedish style whole body relaxing sensual and deep tissue massage.

Ben

60 years old, Bisexual

5'11" 180cm
Athletic
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
No piercings
Size: Average
Role: Versatile
Caucasian (white)

Looking For

Couples (MM) Men
Aged from 18 to 75
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Can travel

Interests

1 on 1, Anal, Kissing, Muscle, Naturism, Oral, Safe sex, Wanking

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*one39 (59), Man on 3 June 2024 by Meeting in person:
What an incredible sensual experience I had today having spent over 2 hours being massaged and massaging Johns body . A gentleman in every sense of the word , I feel totally relaxed and stress free. I very much look forward to seeing magic hands John again , if I get invited back.

*ifeisLife (69), Man on 18 May 2024 by Meeting in person:
After a first meet to get to know one another we then met this week and I spent a couple of hours experiencing this lovely man's kind hospitality and sensual presence as his hands worked magic while he expertly massaged my body from head to foot. Time was not measured. We swapped placed and I then massaged his very sexy, hairy masculine body before laying together enjoying the embrace of oneness. While our time together became very sensual the most incredible experience was the connection between two humans at a physical and spiritual level. I am most grateful to this Lovely man for his forethought and kindness and intuition.

*ig108 (55), Man on 5 May 2024 by Meeting in person:
Next level amazing massage and learnt a few things too thank you

*P2525 (54), Man on 27 April 2024 by Meeting in person:
Took a trip down to the coast to sample this chaps extraordinary massage skills and they were very good, great guy and recommended.

*tmdude1 (52), Man on 27 January 2024 by Meeting in person:
Had an amazing, sensuous meeting with this man. Blindfolded me, led me to the room where we engaged in some very erotic hugging, kissing and touching as he slowly stripped us both. He then laid me down on his massage table for one of the best massages I have ever had. Full body followed a prostrate massage and some incredible attention to my cock (This guy knows how to touch!!!!). What happened after shall remain between us. One of the most erotic experiences I have had, left feeling so relaxed and yet still incredibly turned on! Not to be missed.

*uy near Arundel (56), Man on 12 August 2023 by Meeting in person:
Met today and very much enjoyed my visit. Had some fantastic mutual massaging following a nice relaxing chat, after which our oiled bodies were ready for some more intimate massaging. I thoroughly enjoyed his hands all over me, and I only hope I was somehow able to return the favour. He was much more skilled than me! Hope to meet again.

*obster6800 (52), Man on 24 April 2023 by Meeting in person:
Just met this incredibly intelligent charismatic gentle man and what proceeded to happen blew my mind.. I went in stressed and tired and came out exhilarated and calm.. I will not divulge much other than to say the massage experience was one i will not forget.. Definitely a gentleman I want to meet regularly.

*ingerdownthere (64), Man on 17 April 2023 by Meeting in person:
Had a long evening of mutual massage and intimacy with this guy. Loved his hole kissing my twitching cock.

*damalias (73), Man on 17 March 2023 by Meeting in person:
I have just met Benjiboy for the first time and what a delight,having been on the same massage site but never had the chance to meet we decided to massage each other , he is very accomplished and has very good hands and has a very relaxing style The evening was very enjoyable , cant wait to have another interesting evening with this gentle and thoughtful man

*hagamuffin (57), Man on 8 January 2023 by Meeting in person:
He is probably the most genuine man on here, amazing kisser, stupendous massage technique (which I woefully tried to imitate) and an understanding of the human body that goes beyond the physical. This is one gentleman that will be receiving regular requests to meet from me, I just hope he will allow me??? Thanks for an amazing evening.

*astings1983 (41), Man on 13 September 2022 by Meeting in person:
Went round to his lovely house, welcomed at the door and led to his amazing massage room set up. I got naked and laid on my front where he proceeded to give me a great body massage. After he had massaged most of me he moved me to my requested position, effectively on all fours, and gave me a wonderful edging and cock massage that I won’t forget. Very relaxed and exactly what I wanted and needed. Thank you and hope to repeat sometime

*ilverspur (72), Man on 12 November 2021 by Meeting in person:
Well what can I say. Passionate, caring, intelligent. Made me very welcome and we had lots of fun. Would happily meet again if invited. Thank you so much it was lovely.

*astings1983 (41), Man on 21 August 2021 by Meeting in person:
Nice relaxed meet, I was a bit nervous but I was out at ease and massaged for about 45 minutes until I shot my load. Was an intense orgasm that I’d love to repeat sometime. Great guy. Great experience.

*lack Mamba (49), Man on 18 May 2021 by Meeting in person:
Had a lovely meet with this guy. We stripped naked then he kindly took some pictures for my profile before grabbing hold of my hard cock and gently milking it from behind as I knelt on all fours. He oiled my cock and stroked it faster and faster until I shuddered to a climax. Great meet.... Don't miss out.

*tm4top (56), Man on 8 May 2021 by Meeting in person:
What a wonderful lover, he takes you to the edge and you experience the most amazing feelings . He worked my nipples and with his hard cock deep inside me I was in total ecstasy. He is passionate and tender with great stamina. Bottoms! Do not miss this awesome experience! I hope he will fuck me again soon I will keep the whole day free!!!!

*ungboy9inch (43), Man on 25 February 2019 by Meeting in person:
Great massage just what I needed. Thanks.

*tm4top (56), Man on 29 November 2018 by Meeting in person:
Don’t miss the opportunity to meet with this guy, he is so sensual and loving. He has great stamina and knows how to use his nice hard cock to bring amazing ecstasy and cums a lovely sweet load! I’m still buzzing hours later. Thank you and please can we meet again xx

*icbob71 (62), Man on 5 October 2018 by Meeting in person:
I met Ben for the first time today and seriously hope that it won’t be the last. We had a really nice chat followed by some fantastic mutual massaging after which our oiled bodies were ready for some really erotic sexy fun. A very honest, sociable and tactile man who certainly hit the right buttons for me. Thank you Ben x

*b-sw (65), Man on 7 August 2018 by Meeting in person:
Well, what can I say? A charming and sensual man. He gave me a wonderful massage and I enjoyed returning the favour. Relaxing, calming but hot. A wonderful kisser, magic hands and a cock perfect for penetrative sex. So hope we get to meet again soon and thank you for a wonderful few hours.

*armlessfunwithyou (49), Man on 19 July 2018 by Meeting in person:
Real gentleman and very very good with his hands. Excellent massage, very soft lips and exquisite edging. Highly recommended as a way to unwind.

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